AITA for making things about me too much in a friend group, or is my friend (22m) overreacting to everything I do?

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I (21f) am realizing my friend (22m) might not be the person I thought he was, and it’s making me question our entire dynamic. How can you tell when a close friendship has stopped being healthy, especially when it’s been years and the dynamic feels hard to untangle?

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